Yeah, the Jaffa are generally more followers than leaders, except for the odd few like Teal'c, Bra'tac, and whatsisname played by Isaac Hayes. It's been conditioned into them, I guess - I can see why people wouldn't choose that. But the Tok'ra have a lot of bad points, too. They're highly political, and deeply paranoid, and don't seem to trust one another, never mind outsiders. And Tok'ra fashion is hideous... *g*

My favourite episode never stays put. All those ones you mention - yes. Love them all for different reasons and different moments.