Thank you - I'm truly glad that all this time and effort (I don't mean mine!), all these spoons (as per the post I've just been reading) haven't been wholly wasted - because I personally feel there's some gold come out of it. I've read some beautiful, thought-provoking posts - including yours, about the fish. :)

And yes, exactly - it would be lovely if it just was not. But it is, it was, it happened, it exists. And, hell NO, sticking our fingers in our ears and hoping it will all go away for a while... just, no.