I love this thank you.

I've written and deleted countless posts on this myself. I end up stumbling over myself and sounding like a moron. But there is something for not being silent and lord knows I babble on all the freaking time about other issues I am more comfrotable with.

Which I think is the point - you have to push pass your own comfort boundaries and say, "I am not sure how to address this, but something is not right so perhaps a simple "No" will do."

If that makes sense.