Oh I've always thought that Daniel has the ability to be less kind than any of the others. But I agree with Trout that Vala is putting up a front - I saw her as utterly and completely freaked out about what happened. She also saw the Ori first hand so she *knows* what this mean and considering how she had witnessed true evil as a host, I see her reactions as "bury it, hide it, deal with emotions later, stop the evil now".

Cam is hot. Sam is hot. Teal'c is hot. That is all.