However, don't forget, you could hang out with Jacob if you're a Tok'ra!

Yeah, but I don't think you bond much with other Tok'ra. You're just kind of sent on missions on your own and then you report back, if you make it out alive. Plus, they're a lot more willing to sacrifice others.

And Anise would be there... not cool

At least as a Jaffa, you have a real community and you interact with others. There's more of a family life.

I've put WAY too much thought into this.